Dating has progressed from meeting people in public places and having conversation to swiping left or right and texting for hookups. Does it mean all hope for a real relationship is lost? I argue that no, all hope is not lost, but you must be aware of the rules of the game so you don't fall victim to it. This goes for men and women.

In this episode, I'm going to cover the 10 commandments of dating for the Modern Gent. They're not difficult, but they almost certainly end in disaster if not followed. Everything from who to where, to when, and why is listed, so let's get started.

Men are programmed to conquer things. We come with software already installed from the factory that has us compelled to solve things, right wrongs, and stand and fight. It's what makes us such great linear thinkers! We see a problem, we focus on the next steps, we take them, and we conquer. Piece of cake.

Unfortunately, in our male-pattern-thinking, we completely miss the perspectives and emotions of those around us, and how our actions impact them. To call us stubborn and bullheaded is such an easy thing to do when we are in our default mode of "get it done." We don't see the problem with solving the problem... so what's the problem?

Today's episode is about the Hero inside all men and why being a hero makes you an idiot. I'm going to introduce you to your hero, your victim, and your villain so you understand what kind of movie your life really is these days.